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Beyond lust, create companionship with your sex workers!Many more men are willing to buy sex than to admit the fact. Joseph Itiel is not only willing to admit it--he has the courage and style to create "virtual" relationships with hustlers. These ongoing professional relationships are a step beyond cold, anonymous sex for sale. Though the economic basis remains the same--an open exchange of cash for sex--the association is also honest, affectionate, and sexually fulfilling. He explains how you can do the same in Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends, a companion volume to his best-selling A Consumer's Guide to Male Hustlers (Haworth 1998).From his own experience, stretching over four decades and many nations, the author suggests ways to transform the relationship between a client and his escort from a crass commercial transaction to a true camaraderie. Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends also offers an intimate glimpse into the gay lifestyle in San Francisco and around the world before the AIDS epidemic and in these days of safer sex. Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends presents practical tips and real-life vignettes, including:
an experiment to help you decide if you could be a sex worker (See if you measure up!)
an appendix containing a comprehensive list of sex workers advertising on the World Wide Web
seven guidelines for friendly relations with your escort
a guide to the etiquette of negotiable affection
Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends is shocking, sexy, literate, and fun. It also can help you find the affection you want--at a price you can afford.
Contents
Preface
Acknowledgments
Prologue. Would I Make a Good Sex Worker?
Chapter 1. Do Sex Workers Hustle and Are Their Johns Clients?
Chapter 2. Agencies, the Internet, and Advance Bookings
Chapter 3. Tarred by the Straight Brush
Chapter 4. The New ProfessionalismDoes It Benefit Clients?
Chapter 5. Ass to Ass: The Tantra Massage
Chapter 6. Sex-Plus Relationships
Chapter 7. Playing Prisoner of War
Chapter 8. I Used to Be Joseph's Little Prostitute
Chapter 9. Defaulting to Sex Work
Chapter 10. Sugar Daddies and Their Ungrateful Sons
Chapter 11. Sex Work for Better Self-Esteem
Chapter 12. Mature Sex Workers
Chapter 13. Seven Guidelines
Appendix: Sex Workers' Web Sites
Notes
Index
Reference Note Included
